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So in short, Kittycatgirl, yes, I ''do ''understand. Believe me, I've allowed myself to lose my temper at people who have made far less vile remarks than this person has, so I've actually been there. But that's exactly why I wanted to contact you about it. Don't think you're either letting there behavior slide or getting away with it if you ''don't ''confront it. You're not; you're just dealing with it in a more tactful, efficient way. It's hard to do in the short-term, but it's more likely to pay off in the long run. Just remember; people like this just aren't worth it. Plus, they're the ones living empty, meaningless lives and spewing equally empty, meaningless bile just to satisfy their childish need for attention, not you, so ultimately, who's really the worst off for it?
 
So in short, Kittycatgirl, yes, I ''do ''understand. Believe me, I've allowed myself to lose my temper at people who have made far less vile remarks than this person has, so I've actually been there. But that's exactly why I wanted to contact you about it. Don't think you're either letting there behavior slide or getting away with it if you ''don't ''confront it. You're not; you're just dealing with it in a more tactful, efficient way. It's hard to do in the short-term, but it's more likely to pay off in the long run. Just remember; people like this just aren't worth it. Plus, they're the ones living empty, meaningless lives and spewing equally empty, meaningless bile just to satisfy their childish need for attention, not you, so ultimately, who's really the worst off for it?
   
P.S. By the way, even if it's understandable, I do appreciate the apology. I really do sympathize, especially the part about sticking up for fellow users, and I know it's hard, but just try not to treat anything they do or say like it has any real meaning, because by doing that, in a sense, you're giving them validation and power. Besides, we all know who really owes an apology, but unfortunately, it's just not going to happen.
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P.S. By the way, even if it's understandable, I do appreciate the apology. I really do sympathize, especially the part about sticking up for fellow users, but as hard as it is, just try not to treat anything they do or say like it has any real meaning, because by doing that, in a sense, you're giving them validation and power. Besides, we all know who really owes an apology, but unfortunately, it's just not going to happen.

Latest revision as of 21:03, November 17, 2019

Exactly. Frankly, out of all the problematic users I have any knowledge of, or in some cases, have briefly come across, I'd say this user is the worst of them all. Pretty much everything they post is meant to shock, offend and degrade other people. Whoever they are, they clearly just want attention, and unfortunately, this is a case where they'll sink to absolutely any low to get it. 

So in short, Kittycatgirl, yes, I do understand. Believe me, I've allowed myself to lose my temper at people who have made far less vile remarks than this person has, so I've actually been there. But that's exactly why I wanted to contact you about it. Don't think you're either letting there behavior slide or getting away with it if you don't confront it. You're not; you're just dealing with it in a more tactful, efficient way. It's hard to do in the short-term, but it's more likely to pay off in the long run. Just remember; people like this just aren't worth it. Plus, they're the ones living empty, meaningless lives and spewing equally empty, meaningless bile just to satisfy their childish need for attention, not you, so ultimately, who's really the worst off for it?

P.S. By the way, even if it's understandable, I do appreciate the apology. I really do sympathize, especially the part about sticking up for fellow users, but as hard as it is, just try not to treat anything they do or say like it has any real meaning, because by doing that, in a sense, you're giving them validation and power. Besides, we all know who really owes an apology, but unfortunately, it's just not going to happen.

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